Indulging Myself...

Hehehe.. Untuk memberikan hadiah bagi diriku for working so hard lately... Here's a gift for my self...


Nonton the one and only Jamiroquai..... Which suddenly happen to be a nite out..
The 'It' Bianca Bag for me... Bought it from my lovelyfriend dini @ Ciciero.. Love it very much.. I bought the grey one, to match with my car and my working uniform...

And a T strap platform shoes from Charles and Keith with killer heels, to make my legs kinda sexier.... Kkkk..

Too bad, the picture from the web is not available

I'm sooo satisfied.... Tinggal ngejublak aja liat tagihan bulan depan...

Four People You'll Meet in Life

Life is the process of finding love; every person will need to find four people in their life.

First person is you.

Second person is the one you love most.

Third person is the one who love you most.

And the fourth is the one you spend the rest of your life with.

In life, firstly you will meet with the one you love most, and learn how love feels. Because you know how love feels, so you can find the person who loves you most. When you have experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved, you will then know what it is you need most. Then you will find the person who is most suitable for you, to be able to spend the rest of your life with.

Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person. The one you love most doesn't love you. The one, who love you most, is never the one you love most. And the one you spend your life with, is never the one you love most or the one who love you most. He is just the person who happens to be at the right place at the right time.

Which person are you in other people's life?

No person will purposely have a change of heart. At the point in time when he loves you, he really loves you. But when he doesn't love you anymore, he really doesn't love you anymore. When he loves you, he can't pretend that he doesn't. Same goes, when he loves you no more, there's no way he can pretend he loves you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you must ask yourself if you still love him. If you also don't love him anymore, do not keep him just to save your pride. If you still love him, you should wish him happiness, and hope that he will be with the one he loves most, not stop him from it. If you stop him from finding true happiness with the one he loves, it shows you already don't love him. And if you don't love him, what rights do you have to blame him for a change of heart?

Love is not possessive.

If you like the moon, you can't just take it down and put it in your basin, but the moonlight still shines upon you. In other words, when you love a person, you can use another method of possessing the person. Let him become a permanent memory in you life. If you really love a person, you must love him for what he is. Love him for his good points, and the bad. You can't wish for him to become like what you like him to be just because you love him. If he can't change to become what you like him to be, you don't love him anymore.

When you really love a person, you cannot find a reason why you love him. You only know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have this person be with you. Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems without asking for promises or listing criteria. In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give in at times, not always be on the receiving end. Being away from each other is a type of test. If the relationship isn't strong, then you can only admit defeat. Real love will never become hate.

When two people are in love, they love to ask each other to swear, to make promises. Why do they ask each other to swear and promise? Because they don't trust each other, they don't trust their lover. These swear and promises are useless; Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, my love for you will never change! We all know that the sky will never fall; the ocean will never dry. Even if it does happen, are we still alive by then?

Be careful when making promises; don't make promises that you cannot keep. Swear by things that can never happen, because it can never happen, so no harm just saying it casually.

Remember, swearing by things that can never happen are the most touching!! In a relationship, what you say is one thing, but what you do is another;

The one saying, doesn't believe; the one listening, also doesn't believe.

First published in Yulie's Friendster Blog on 9 May 2006

L.O.V.E

L is for the way you look at me
O is for the only one I see
V is very, very extraordinary
E is even more than anyone that you adore

Can love is all that I can give to you
Love is more than just a game for two
Two in love can make it
Take my heart but please don't break it
Love was made for me and you

I have another sharing about what we called L.O.V.E.
Have a nice readings

Learn to love the people who are with you at present. Forget the people in the past and thank them for hurting you, which led you to love the people you have right now.

When you love someone, you'll do crazy things you can't explain, you'll deny the truth and believe in lies. When you love someone, you sacrifice, give everything you've got and don't think twice. You risk it all no matter what...

Everything in life is temporary, because everything changes.

That is why it takes courage to love, knowing it might end anytime. Having faith will make it last...

Friends are not the one who laugh when you laugh and cry when you cry. They are the ones who make you laugh and stop you from crying...

Love is the feeling we fall in and out of, and every time we fall of, we learn to hold on tighter, hoping that next time we may never have to let go...

They say when love knocks at your door, open it. But do you know that sometimes love enters through the back door and before you begin to notice it, it's on it's way out...

Have you ever loved only to let it go?

Have you hated someone and loved him so?

Have you ever missed someone so bad it made you cry?

Have you ever seen someone left alone without knowing why?

True: Lucky is the man who wins the first love of a woman, but luckier is the woman who wins the last love of a man...

Love is not the right word to say when you fell guilty nor the right word to say when you like a person but love really matters when we share our thoughts, our minds and our hearts...

Life has a way of changing things but not the joy that friendship brings, for friendship is like the shinning moon makes each night a brighter one.

Love is not for beauty or color of skin but for a heart that is loyal within, for beauty fades and...

The skin would grow old but a heart that is loyal will never turn cold...

If someone hurts you, betrays you or break your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.

A love is easy to feel, so hard to explain, so easy to get, so hard to let go, so easy to spell, so hard to define and yet everyone is still taking the risk...

That's love !

We are all a little weird and life's a little weird and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in love in mutual weirdness and call it LOVE!...

Never be afraid to fall in love. It may hurt a lot, it may gives aches and pain but if you don't follow your heart, in the end you will cry even more for not giving love a chance...

Don't run ahead of God. Let Him direct your steps. He has plans and He has His time. God's clock is never one minute early nor one minute late. It always strikes right on time...

If someone love you, love them back not only because they love you, but also because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you have never seen or felt without them...

The past is meant to be used as a tool for the future. Bad experience indeed make you bitter but the lesson learned should make you better.

On letting go, it hurt to see someone you love happy with somebody else but wouldn't it hurt you more to see that person unhappy... with you?...

When you find arms that will hold you at your weakest, eyes that will see at your ugliest, lips that will kiss you in both instances, and a heart that will love you at your worst then you have found TRUE LOVE...

Someday, someone might come into your life and love you in a way you always wanted.

If your someday was yesterday... LEARN

If your someday is tomorow... HOPE

If your someday is today.. CHERISH

First published in Yulie's Friendster Blog on 7 Sept 2007

Carilah Dia yang Membuat Hatimu Tersenyum

Terkadang ada saat-saat dalam hidup ketika kita merindukan seseorang begitu dalam, hingga kita ingin mengambilnya dari angan-angan, lalu memeluknya erat-erat!

Ketika pintu kebahagiaan tertutup, pintu yang lain terbuka; tetapi, seringkali kita memandang terlalu lama pada pintu yang tertutup hingga kita tidak melihat pintu yang lain, yang telah terbuka bagi kita.

Jangan percaya penglihatan; penglihatan dapat menipu.

Jangan percaya kekayaan; kekayaan dapat sirna.

Percayalah pada dia yang dapat membuatmu tersenyum, sebab hanya senyumlah yang dibutuhkan untuk mengubah hari gelap menjadi terang.

Carilah dia, yang membuat hatimu tersenyum.

Angankan apa yang kita ingin angankan; pergilah kemana kita ingin pergi; jadilah seperti yang kita kehendaki, sebab hidup hanya satu kali dan kita hanya memiliki satu kesempatan untuk melakukan segala hal yang kita ingin lakukan.

Semoga kita punya cukup kebahagiaan untuk membuat diri tersenyum, cukup pencobaan untuk membuat kuat, cukup penderitaan untuk tetap menjadikan diri kita manusiawi, dan cukup pengharapan untuk menjadikan kita bahagia.

Mereka yang paling berbahagia tidaklah harus memiliki yang terbaik dari segala sesuatu; mereka hanya mengoptimalkan segala sesuatu yang datang dalam perjalanan hidup mereka.

Masa depan yang paling gemilang akan selalu dapat diraih dengan melupakan masa lalu yang kelabu; kita tidak akan dapat maju dalam hidup hingga kita melepaskan segala kegagalan dan sakit hati.

Jangan hitung tahun-tahun yang lewat, hitunglah saat-saat yang indah..

Hidup tidak diukur dengan banyaknya napas yang kita hirup; melainkan dengan saat-saat di mana kita menarik napas bahagia.

First published in Yulie's Friendster Blog on 29 June 2007

Signs of Soulmate. Are They True?

Berikut ini pakar relationship, sekaligus penulis buku "21 Ways to Attract Your Soul Mate", Arian Sarris

Memberikan rahasianya:

Pertanda 1
Rahasia sepasang kekasih agar bisa memiliki umur hubungan yang panjang adalah adanya saling berbagi. Anda dan dia selalu bisa saling membantu, entah itu pekerjaan sepele atau besar. Paling penting adalah Anda berdua selalu bisa menikmati segala aspek kehidupan secara bersama-sama. Dan semuanya terasa amat menyenangkan meskipun tanpa harus melibatkan orang lain. Nah, apakah Anda sudah merasakan hal tersebut? Jika ya, selamat berarti ada harapan bahwa dia adalah calon pendamping hidup Anda!

Pertanda 2
Salah satu kriteria yang menentukan cocok tidaknya dia itu jodoh Anda atau bukan adalah kemampuannya bersikap santai di depan Anda. Coba sekarang perhatikan, apakah gerak geriknya, caranya berpakaian, gaya rambutnya,caranya berbicara serta tertawanya mengesankan apa adanya? Apakah setiap ucapannya selalu tampak spontan dan tidak dibuat-buat? Jika tidak, (maaf). Kemungkinan besar dia bukan jodoh Anda.

Pertanda 3
Adanya kontak bathin membuat hati Anda berdua bisa selalu saling tahu. Dan bila Anda atau si dia bisa saling membaca pikiran dan menduga reaksi serta perasaanya satu sama lainnya pada situasi tertentu. Selamat! Mungkin sebenarnya dialah belahan jiwa Anda yang tersimpan.

Pertanda 4
Bersamanya bisa membuat perasaan Anda menjadi santai, nyaman tanpa perasaan tertekan. Berjam-jam bersamanya, setiap waktu dan setiap hari tak membuat Anda merasa bosan.. Ini bisa sebagai pertanda bahwa Anda berdua kelak bisa saling terikat. Tapi apabila Anda bersama dia merasa tertekan, ketika Anda lagi pergi selain ke kantor setiap 5 menit sekali dalam 1 hari dia telponin Anda terus2an, berani melempar Anda di depan teman Anda dengan barang. Mungkin ada yang menamakan itu cinta, tapi cinta tanpa ada rasa percaya merupakan neraka. Bagaimana ada cinta
kalo dia tidak menghormati Anda di depan teman atau sahabat Anda. Jika ini terjadi maka dia (maaf) bukanlah soulmate Anda.

Pertanda 5
Dia selalu ada untuk Anda dalam situasi apapun. Dan dia selalu bisa memahami cuaca dalam hati Anda baik dalam suka dan duka. Percayalah pasangan yang berjodoh pasti tak takut mengalami pasang surut saat bersama. Sekarang,ingat- ingat kembali. Apakah dia orang pertama yang datang memberi bantuan tatkala Anda dirundung musibah? Dia selalu paham saat PMS Anda datang menyerang? Dia cepat-cepat datang dan mencarikan
obat tatkala mendengar kabar Anda sakit? Jika ya, tak salah lagi. Dialah orangnya.

Pertanda 6
Dia tak terlalu peduli dengan masa lalu keluarga Anda, dia tak peduli dengan masa lalu Anda saat bersama kekasih terdahulu. Dia juga tak malu-malu menceritakan masa lalunya.. Nah, kalau begitu ini bisa berarti dia sudah siap menerima Anda apa adanya..

Pertanda 7
Setiap orang pasti memiliki kekurangan, dan Anda tak malu-malu memperlihatkannya pada si dia. Bahkan pada saat Anda tampil 'buruk' di depannya sekalipun, misalnya saat Anda bangun tidur atau saat Anda sakit dan tak mandi selama dua hari.

Pertanda 8
Bila Anda merasa rahasia Anda bisa lebih aman di tangannya daripada di tangan sahabat-sahabat Anda. Atau Anda merasa sudah tak bisa lagi menyimpan rahasia apapun darinya, maka berbahagialah! Karena ini bisa berarti pasangan sejati telah Anda temukan!

Apakah kedelapan pertanda di atas telah Anda temukan padanya?
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Taken from milis HW